Denmark is known for its rich culture, progressive values, and high quality of life, making it a top destination for expats. However, adapting to Danish life also means understanding some unique social norms and unwritten rules. To make your transition smoother, here are 20 things not to do in Denmark. For more insights on Danish culture, visit The Danish Dream’s guide for expats.
1. Don’t Ignore Personal Space
Danes value personal space and tend to keep a comfortable distance during conversations. Avoid standing too close to others, especially in public settings.
2. Don’t Arrive Late
Punctuality is essential in Denmark. Being on time shows respect, whether it’s for a business meeting, a social gathering, or an appointment.
3. Don’t Skip the Queue
Queueing is a big deal in Denmark, so make sure to wait your turn. Cutting in line is frowned upon and considered disrespectful.
4. Don’t Make a Fuss About ‘Janteloven’
‘Janteloven,’ or the “Law of Jante,” emphasizes modesty and equality. Boasting or showing off is generally discouraged, so try to keep a humble attitude.
5. Don’t Be Overly Formal
Danes tend to be informal in both language and dress. First names are used in most settings, and business attire is often smart-casual rather than formal.
6. Don’t Compare Denmark to Your Home Country
While it’s natural to compare, avoid frequently mentioning how things are done “back home.” Embracing Denmark’s unique way of life will help you integrate more smoothly.
7. Don’t Underestimate the Power of ‘Hygge’
‘Hygge’ is an important part of Danish culture, embodying coziness and contentment. Embrace it and join in cozy gatherings with friends to show appreciation for Danish values.
8. Don’t Expect Shops to Be Open 24/7
Many stores in Denmark close early, especially on weekends. Plan your shopping accordingly, as 24-hour service is rare outside of larger cities.
9. Don’t Ignore Social Norms
Denmark has specific cultural nuances, from punctuality to avoiding superficiality in conversations. For a deeper understanding of these social norms, watch this helpful YouTube video on navigating Danish culture. This video offers practical tips on how to respect Danish customs and fit in more comfortably.
10. Don’t Make Excessive Small Talk
Danes are often straightforward and don’t engage in small talk with strangers. Keep conversations focused and meaningful, especially in professional settings.
11. Don’t Forget to Recycle
Sustainability is deeply embedded in Danish culture. Recycling is common in Denmark, so be mindful of separating waste and follow the recycling guidelines in your area.
12. Don’t Expect a Big Tip
Tipping is not customary in Denmark, as service charges are typically included. If you want to show appreciation for excellent service, a small tip is appreciated but not expected.
13. Don’t Cross the Street on Red
Danes strictly adhere to pedestrian rules, and jaywalking is uncommon. Wait for the green light before crossing, even if no cars are coming.
14. Don’t Overpay for Bottles – Use the ‘Pant’ System
The ‘pant’ system allows you to return bottles for a refund at supermarkets. Look for recycling stations in grocery stores to redeem your deposit.
15. Don’t Refuse an Invitation to ‘Hygge’
If invited to a Danish ‘hygge’ gathering, try to attend. It’s a cherished part of Danish culture and a great way to connect with locals in a cozy, informal setting.
16. Don’t Expect People to Engage in Religious Discussions
Denmark is largely secular, and Danes typically avoid discussing religion publicly. Respect their boundaries by keeping religious discussions private.
17. Don’t Forget to Remove Your Shoes
It’s common in Denmark to remove your shoes when entering someone’s home, so remember to follow this custom as a sign of respect.
18. Don’t Be Loud in Public Spaces
Danes value quietness, especially in public transport and restaurants. Keep noise levels down, especially in places where others are relaxing or working.
19. Don’t Dress Too Flashy
Danish style leans toward minimalism and practicality. Flashy or overdressed attire might seem out of place, so try to adopt a casual yet chic approach to your wardrobe.
20. Don’t Criticize Denmark
While Danes appreciate constructive discussions, harsh criticism about their country can come off as disrespectful. Focus on positive aspects and appreciate what Denmark has to offer.
For more tips on navigating Danish culture and making the most of your experience, check out The Danish Dream’s guide on things not to do in Denmark. Following these guidelines will help you integrate smoothly, respect local customs, and enjoy a rewarding expat experience in Denmark.